By Amy Thoma
While I was job searching last month I had the opportunity to have coffee, lunch and happy hour with a bunch of amazing women. I loved picking their brains on career paths, families, work/life balance and a bunch of other topics. I thought it would be fun to share the wealth with our GOTG readers.
Our first interview is with Mary Daffin, one of my favorite people. She’s honest, smart, beautiful, wise and a ton of fun. You can find her musings at www.marydaffin.com and www.Noteworthyexperts.com.
Name: Mary Daffin
Occupation: Self=Employed Event Designer / Creative Consultant
Years in Sacramento: Moved here in 1986
What is your day job and how did you get to where you are today?
Event Designer / Creative Consultant.
My 20 years of experience in the fashion and commercial industries was invaluable in preparing me for my current profession. After years of being in front of the camera and on stage I turned my attention to fashion production, where I honed the tools of my craft, trending, textiles, staging, music, and lighting. It was an incredible environment to work in where imagination and beauty was everything. My experience there transferred seamlessly into designing large scale corporate events.
How have women’s roles in the workplace changed over the last 20 years?
Today there are so many more options for women. Technology has given us the ability to job share or telecommute around the world all while working from the comforts of our home office or local coffee shop. Also the salary gap is closing in and people (both men and women) no longer believe we need to be a “man” to compete in the market place.
Favorite thing about being self-employed?
I like making decisions so it’s fun to see those decisions come to fruition.
Most frustrating thing about being self-employed?
The tax burden of the self-employed.
How do you maintain a work/life balance?
For me, I have learned when I am in-tune spiritually with God I am balanced internally, which is carried on to the external. My priorities are in line with healthy boundaries and living.
What’s your secret to success?
Knowing you can have it all but that it’s impossible to have it all at once.
What would you tell your 25 year old self?
Knowing what I know now, I would tell myself to take the lessons and memories from my youth that serve me well and to leave behind the ones that don’t.
What would you tell your 30 year old self?
That success needs to be changed and altered during the span of a life time. Success for a woman in her thirties looks very different than a woman in her fifties.
What’s your favorite spot on the grid?
How do you unwind?
Working out if I need to de-stress, read if I need to escape, and time with friends if I need to laugh!
If you could change one thing about living in Sacramento what would it be?
Move my beloved New Orleans closer.
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